NYC Dating Annoyance #25

Why is it if you're a girl sitting at a bar inevitably the older guy, the too old for you guy, chats always thinks it's ok to chat with?

And it's never the cuter appropriate guy on the other side?

You Know What's Awkward?

When you awake up, remember a dream about kissing your co-worker who happens to be your current crush and then he seeing him at the office.

Crushing at Work

It's been awhile since I've had a crush on anyone.

There is a really gorgeous guy that I work with. Undeniably good looking. Like even if he isn't your type, you can't argue that he's not attractive. I noticed him off the bat but never had a conversation with him until a couple of weeks ago.

Since then, I think he's been flirting with me.

I finally decided - what the helll! I am going to get my crush on.

It also helps to detract from Mr.The Time Is Not Right Now. 

I'm So Spoiled

Beautiful flowers from a great guy.

Boys & Girls: Same Story Decades Later

It's funny because I think that men and women are equals about life and sex but it's proven to me again and again that my thoughts don't hold true to the general consesus.
The last couple of guys I've dated STILL don't understand that:
For one: Girls can date without wanting to get serious.Turns out that is exactly want some of us very much want. Me very much included.

For two: A one time thing as it is for them is the SAME as it is for us. Again, I am very much included in this. And when guys think we want so much more - it truly pisses me off. Like A LOT.

For three: Women can really enjoy sex WITHOUT expectations. Hell, sometimes that is all that I want.
Maybe it's just me, except I know it's not because I have girlfriends who feel the same way - us women get it and like it when it's just fun and just a fling :). I couldn't be happier but it makes me outraged that guys don't get it.

And I hate having to explain myself.

Round Whatever of Online Dating

People why wonder I haven't had much luck with online dating. See below evidence (name removed to protect the Mr. Over Eager):


Hello beautiful, I'm ________. How are you doing? Wow, I am blown away by your profile! You are an amazing woman, beautiful too ;-) You should be a model! If you are looking for an amazing man to spend lots of time with laughing, traveling, and creating lasting memories with, then look no further. Here I am! We should talk sometime or meet for coffee or lunch or something. Let me know if you are interested, I would love the opportunity to get to know you. ________

I rest my case.

Thank you for your time.